Showing posts with label dysfunctions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dysfunctions. Show all posts

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Does God Hate Us? - Part 3

The idea that God - who is Love - would hate anything is difficult to comprehend.  If God is Love, how could He hate?  The fact that hateful wickedness and evil do exist, causes doubts of the very existence of a God that Loves.  To many people, God is impersonal, indifferent to the sufferings of human society – much less concerned over us individually.  Humanists, denying the existence of God, have “rationalized” that evil doesn’t exist, either.  Should we really believe that a person’s actions and plans are never sinister?  

There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God - Romans 10

For we have already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under the power of sin. As it is written:  “There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands" - Romans 3

The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. - Jeremiah 17

In this series of articles "Does God Hate Us," we are examining Proverbs 6 - a list of things God specifically states He hates.  In the first two blogs we reviewed, "haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, and feet that are quick to rush into evil."  If reading this list and thinking, "oh, I'm not like these;" then we ask you to review the full articles, Part 1 and Part 2.  Yes, folks - all of us have done something, or behave someway, that God has told us He hates.  We all have sin and are accountable, even if only bearing the heaviness of a guilty conscious during this life.  We can choose to live oppressed:    

Sin speaks to the wicked deep in his heart. -- Psalm 36

These actions that God hates are offenses against our human society, and not merely against God.  What we do that destroys human relationships and destabilizes social order, God hates "with a passion." They don't just bring temporary pain and conflict, but severely separate us from relationship with our Heavenly Creator.  Yet only He can accurately know our hearts.  These behaviors - chosen, or not - prevent us from having any knowledge of God, whatsoever; and can prevent us from ever experiencing Him and His Love. We can even hinder another person's ability to know God. Such spiritual separation, without justice and forgiveness, can be eternal.  

For the wages of sin is death – Romans 6

The wages of the righteous is life, but the earnings of the wicked are sin and death - Proverbs 10:16

 For some of you have NOT the knowledge of God [you are utterly and willfully and disgracefully ignorant, and continue to be so, lacking the sense of God's presence and all true knowledge of Him]. I say this to your shame. -- 1 Corinthians 15

 There are six things the LORD hates,
   seven that are detestable to him:
   (1) haughty eyes,
      (2) a lying tongue,
      (3) hands that shed innocent blood,
  (4) a heart that devises wicked schemes,
(5) feet that are quick to rush into evil,
  (6) a false witness who pours out lies
(7) and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.
 
- Proverbs 6:16-19
 
It's interesting to note this list makes references to parts of the body:  eyes, tongue, hands, heart, and feet.  Of these that God hates, all would ordinarily characterize "a person who stirs up conflict in the community."  None can be more devestating, however, than (6) a false witness who pours out lies.  God hates this SO much, in fact, He included this in the old-school "Ten Commandments" - Deuteronomy 5:20 "Neither shall you witness falsely against your neighbor."  What we learn about false accusations, however, is how it devastation transcends the physical and impacts our mental and spiritual health. 
A false witness will not go unpunished, and whoever pours out lies will perish - Proverbs 19
Bearing false witness is the most prolific from this list of things God hates, and has become a normality in Western culture.  This is also a "learned behavior," and it's something we begin learning at an early age.  An attorney once told me that in all court cases, each party always tell lies about the other party, even do the attorneys. Curiously what is often true is how the innocent, the victim, or the plantiff will also offer false testimony or exaggerate their claim.  False witnesses are everywhere around us - not just in courts.  There's false advertisements on TV, politicians regularly shift-blame, and children repeatedly hear false accusations about their character from places like radio, the movies, and very often from classmates.  The deception from false accusation is unmeasurable, and utilizes techniques that are not just verbal assaults.


Blame-shifting is a psychological issue, where rather than being personally accountable and accepting guilt, a person tends to blame someone or something else.  False accusations often manipulate or control feelings through guilt.  Rebellious children blame their parents for their own immaturity, abuses, and addictions (which, unfortunately, often bears credibility).  Another mental "false witness" is when a person who has hurt someone else, subconsciously generates a hatred against their victim.  They hate the victim, rather than consciously acknowledging their guilt.  In marriage, the cheating partner will falsely blame their spouse for the same offense.  They pour out lies, creating a hatred that is falsely justified.  It's like the "oh no, I broke up with YOU" syndrome, where the accuser actually makes themselves hate the other person for no reason - something much more devastating than immature.

The most common form of persecution of the Christian in Western society, originates as false accusations, slander, and hateful rhetoric that comes from the world and the enemies of God.  This becomes spiritual oppression, because the chronic belittling, mocking, and accusations defeats the human spirit.  Emotional abuse becomes spiritual oppression, and we can self-inflict and deepen our wounds.  Whether originating as untrue verbal insults, or coming from false teachings about our God-given identity and purpose - God hates these fallacies, and the people that pour them out.  Regardless Christian or not, all of us are victims.  Some Words to consider: 
Bless those who persecute you, who are cruel in their attitude toward you; bless and do not curse them - Romans 12:14
When men revile us and wound us with an accursed sting, we bless them. When we are persecuted, we take it patiently and endure it.  When we are slandered and defamed, we try to answer softly and bring comfort - 1 Corinthians 4:12-13
A truthful witness saves lives, but a false witness is deceitful - Proverbs 14:24-26
A man who bears false witness against his neighbor is like a club, a sword, and a sharp arrow - Proverbs 25:18
The judges must make a thorough investigation, and if the witness proves to be a liar, giving false testimony against a fellow Israelite, then do to the false witness as that witness intended to do to the other party. You must purge the evil from among you - Deuteronomy 19:18-19
You shall not circulate a false report. Do not put your hand with the wicked to be an unrighteous witness.  You shall not follow a crowd to do evil; nor shall you testify in a dispute so as to turn aside after many to pervert justice - Exodus 23:1-2
A false witness shall not be unpunished, and he who breathes out lies shall not escape - Proverbs 19:5

Friday, January 13, 2012

Does God Hate Us? - Part 2

So does God hate us?  This is a provoking question that many Christians, non-Christians, agnostics, even atheists will impulsively and thoughtlessly respond with "of course not. God is Love."  However true that is, many people - self-professed Christians, even - continue to struggle with genuinely experiencing the "Love of God."  Some are at a point where they believe they are beyond help, that somehow God isn't involved or doesn't care enough.  In all seriousness, however, there are actions we take where the Love of God cannot be found.  In His Word to us, God has repeatedly described people and behaviors that are abhorrent to Him.  This article addresses only a few of the things God does hate - the second post examining Proverbs 6.  If you have not read Part 1, we encourage you; although it is not required for understanding this article.

There are six things the LORD hates,
   seven that are detestable to him:
   (1) haughty eyes,
      (2) a lying tongue,
      (3) hands that shed innocent blood,
  (4) a heart that devises wicked schemes,
(5) feet that are quick to rush into evil,
  (6) a false witness who pours out lies
(7) and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.
 
- Proverbs 6:16-19

 Continuing from Part 1, what God hates:
"A heart that devises wicked schemes" - God hates not just wickedness (sin), but hates the very heart that has become so depraved and so corrupt that everything that comes from it is riddled with sin. We are warned that we get this way from denial - failing to acknowledge that evil is just plain evil.  So we persist in behaving in ways that are contrary to God's purpose for our lives.  We condition our hearts so we become enslaved by our sins, addicted; and will lie awake at night plotting, scheming how to continue in our sins the next day.  God hates this. 
Sin speaks to the wicked deep in his heart. There is no fear or dread of God before his eyes.  For he flatters and deceives himself in his own eyes that his sinful nature will not be found out and be hated.  The words of his mouth are wrong and deceitful; he has ceased to be wise and to do good.  He plans wrongdoing on his bed; he sets himself in a way that is not good; he does not reject or despise evil. -- Psalm 36:1-4
God is Love.  He loves us so much that He prepared us a manual, His Word - to better understand Him, providing sketches of His plans for our lives.  They are guidelines for us - not just good advise or common sense.  These are expectations, instructions, and warnings, about what we must do to experience Gods Love.  His teaching promises us a healthy and abundant life for ourselves, our families, and our community - even the atheist cannot debate that God's guidelines are bad for us.
But the word is very near you, in your mouth and in your mind and in your heart, so that you can do it.  See, I have set before you this day life and good, and death and evil.  If you obey . . . , then you shall live and multiply, and the Lord your God will bless you.  But if your heart turn away and you will not hear, and are drawn away . . . , I declare to you today that you shall surely perish, and you shall not live long . . .
I call heaven and earth to witness this day against you that I have set before you life and death, the blessings and the curses; therefore choose life, that you and your descendants may live and love the Lord your God, obey His voice, and cling to Him.  For He is your life.
-- Deuteronomy 30  
"Feet that are quick to rush into evil"- This is just plain foolishness, especially when we know the difference between good and evil.  It's one thing to have a bad heart, but then another to spend the time and energy to carry out wicked schemes - whether by our own initiation or as an accomplice.  How quickly we once ran to those parties - smoking that dope, drunken, hitting that trim, and scamming others money.  It was so easy to join in with friends when trespassing and thieving, as if there were no need to think twice.  We are quick to beat down our challengers - physically and verbally - as if that were the best way to survive and maintain control.  Yes none of this was healthy, and we live with the physical, emotional, and spiritual curses as a consequence.  How easy to be sold out to Satan's lie that everything will will be alright in the end, "surely you will NOT die."  Many thousands of years later, we are faced with this blatant realization - we will all die !!!!  God even hates that, for He IS long-suffering for us, not willing that any should perish.

The blessing of the LORD brings wealth, without painful toil for it.  A fool finds pleasure in wicked schemes, but a person of understanding delights in wisdom.  Proverbs 10:22-24
 WOE TO those who devise iniquity and work out evil upon their beds! When the morning is light, they perform and practice it because it is in their power. . . .
Therefore thus says the Lord: Behold, against this family I am planning a disaster from which you cannot remove your necks, nor will you be able to walk erect; for it will be an evil time.
-- Micah 2
For the fool speaks folly and his mind plans iniquity: practicing profane ungodliness and speaking error concerning the Lord, . . . The instruments and methods of the fraudulent and greedy are evil; he devises wicked devices to ruin the poor and the lowly with lying words, even when the plea of the needy is just and right.
But the noble, openhearted, and generous man devises noble things; and he stands for what is noble, openhearted, and generous. --
Isaiah 32:6-8
 The LORD examines the righteous, but the wicked, those who love violence, he hates with a passion. -- Psalm 11:5
Do not be so deceived and misled! Evil companionships corrupt and deprave good manners and morals and character.  Awake from your drunken stupor and return to sober sense and your right minds, and sin no more. For some of you have not the knowledge of God [you are utterly and willfully and disgracefully ignorant, and continue to be so, lacking the sense of God's presence and all true knowledge of Him]. I say this to your shame. -- 1 Corinthians 15:33-34

To be continued, Part 3 . . .
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Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Does God Hate Us? - Part 1

While researching and preparing this recent article -  "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" - I stumbled upon this passage that provoked some pretty deep sentiments.

There are six things the LORD hates,
   seven that are detestable to him:
   (1) haughty eyes,
      (2) a lying tongue,
      (3) hands that shed innocent blood,
  (4) a heart that devises wicked schemes,
(5) feet that are quick to rush into evil,
  (6) a false witness who pours out lies
(7) and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.
 

My first impression was 'how uncanny' that I have been victimized by all but one of these, having often felt persecuted.  Yet as I deliberated over each, I recognized how I have not just felt victimized, but that we all are.  The entirety of our society is plagued by these things that God hates, and all of us are perpetrators. The significance to these seven things God emphasizes in this passage, is that they are not just personal, selfish acts of immorality.  These dysfunctions severely impact all social relationships, and sever our relationship with God.

"Haughty eyes" - what are haughty eyes? They are pride and being "high in one's own estimation;" peering down on others as less significant, or less knowledgeable. In its severity, these act out by shunning and ignoring others, turning arrogance into indifference and self-exaltation. This brings to mind Jesus' Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). Similarly, it is this pride that not only shuns our neighbors, but our Heavenly Father- refusing His Grace and provisions for us.
 . . . he who has a haughty look and a proud and arrogant heart I cannot and I will not tolerate. -- Psalm 101:5
A man's pride will bring him low, but he who is of a humble spirit will obtain honor. -- Proverbs 29:23
Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. -- Proverbs 16:18

"A lying tongue" - very little can be added to this meaning. It causes pain, destroys trust, corrupts family and social order, and represents the antitheses of Love and Truth - two profound characteristics of God. Jesus states that Satan "is a liar [himself] and the father of lies and of all that is false" (John 8:44). It was because of a lie that sin - death and decay - came into human reality.  This sin infected every creation on earth - even initiating the destruction of the earth itself.  (ATTN:  Global warming buffs!)  Satan deceived Eve in Genesis with this lie.  "God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’ Then the serpent said to the woman, ‘You will not surely die.’"  A lie caused the fall of humanity, introduced death, and established a physical separation from God that only He can redeem for us.

Whoever says, ‘I know God,’ but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. But if anyone obeys his Word, love for God is truly made complete in them. -- 1 John 2
If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. -- 1 John 1
"Hands that shed innocent blood" - for this I spent much time meditating.  Murder, as what's implied here, is understandably something to despise.  The death of the innocent is always grievous and incites vengeance - whether that death by malice, negligence, or accident.  After the Hebrew people made their exodus from Egypt, and while establishing themselves as a nation, elaborate laws were created to punish the "shedding of innocent blood."  Murderers were legally avenged by their own death; while accidental man-slayers were provided safe havens, or cities of refuge.  The laws regarding the cities of refuge were to protect the accidental murderer from being killed, where they could flee from an avenger.  These laws were literally dictated by God's instruction.

Today our culture has severely perverted God's intent to avenge the "shedding innocent blood."  Murder is legalized in the tolerance of abortion (of the innocent); yet the punishment of premeditated murder is no longer avenged by death.  As the nation of Israel grew in apostasy (falling away from the truth) and practiced pagan worship, the sacrifice of infants became common.  God venomously rebuked them, and justified His severe wrath against the nation of Israel for accepting that very practice of murdering the innocent.

Today our culture tolerates murder, yet will punish the "shedding of innocent blood" from negligence, somewhat to our credit.  Murders caused by drunk driving accidents, industrial accidents, or abuse are prosecuted.  So what can we learn from the Scriptures about murder by negligence?
"Son of man, speak to your people and say to them, 'When I bring the sword upon a land and the people of the land take a man from among them and make him their watchman,  if when he sees the sword coming upon the land, he blows the trumpet and warns the people, then whoever hears the sound of the trumpet and does not take warning, and the sword comes and takes him away, his blood shall be upon his own head. . . . But he who takes warning shall save his life.  But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet and the people are not warned, and the sword comes and takes any one of them, he is taken away for his perversity and iniquity, but his blood will I require at the watchman's hand.  . . . I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; therefore hear the word at My mouth and give them warning from Me.  When I say to the wicked, O wicked man, you shall surely die, and you do not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked man shall die in his perversity and iniquity, but his blood will I require at your hand.  But if you warn the wicked to turn from his evil way and he does not turn from his evil way, he shall die in his iniquity, but you will have saved your life." -- Ezekiel 3
From this we perceive how God not only holds us accountable for our own sins, but even the death of others caused by our negligence - our double jeopardy.  Deaths caused by drunk driving, drug abuse, reckless violence, and even chronic emotional abuse (to name a few) are doubly avenged.  Yes, the drunkard, the needle pusher or pill pusher, the angry, and the arrogant all have their day "in court."  Those of us foolish enough to "not blow the trumpet" are also held accountable. Naivety is no excuse, for even a child knows that these ways are wicked, especially when they see what results in death.  Even our courts do not differentiate whether that death is prolonged, or an immediate accident; nor do they distinguish between intentions and consequence.

Now consider Jesus teaching in Matthew 5:
 "You have heard that it was said to the men of old, 'You shall not kill, and whoever kills shall be liable to and unable to escape the punishment imposed by the court.  But I say to you that everyone who continues to be angry with his brother or harbors malice (enmity of heart) against him shall be liable and unable to escape the punishment imposed by the court; and whoever speaks contemptuously and insultingly to his brother shall be liable and unable to escape the punishment, and whoever says, You cursed fool! [You empty-headed idiot!] shall be liable to and unable to escape the hell (Gehenna) of fire." -- Matthew 5:21-22
We are a culture being deceived.  For not only is murder a physical action, but taken from God's Word, emotional and spiritual assassination is murder.  Ironically, there is debate all around the World about hate crimes, but we ignore what God teaches us about every sin that leads to the "shedding of innocent blood."  Ultimately, God judges each of us by His standard, true to His character, and never according to the laws established by man.  Each of us need take these to heart:
A consistently righteous man hates lying and deceit, but a wicked man is loathsome, his very breath spreads pollution, and he surely comes to shame. -- Proverbs 13:5

But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden His face from you, so that He will not hear.  For your hands are defiled with blood and your fingers with iniquity; your lips have spoken lies, your tongue mutters wickedness.  None sues or calls in righteousness, but only for the sake of doing injury to others--to take some undue advantage - no one goes to law and honestly pleads his case in truth; they trust in emptiness, worthlessness and futility, and speaking lies! -- Isaiah 59:2-4

The thoughts and purposes of the consistently righteous are honest and reliable, but the counsels and designs of the wicked are treacherous.  The words of the wicked lie in wait for blood, but the mouth of the upright shall deliver them and the innocent ones that are endangered. -- Proverbs 12:5-6

For if you thoroughly amend your ways and your doings, if you thoroughly and truly execute justice between every man and his neighbor, if you do not oppress the transient and the alien, the fatherless, and the widow or shed innocent blood by oppression and by judicial murders - or go after other gods to your own hurt - then I will cause you to dwell in this place, in the land that I gave of old to your fathers to dwell in forever.  -- Jeremiah 7:5-7
 . . . to be continued, Does God Hate Us? - Part 2